Wiggle It Out: My Spastic Son Needs to Move & Burn Energy

Boys are hyper, right? Or at least that’s why they apparently can’t sit still and focus in the conventional classroom. An alarming number of boys are diagnosed with ADHD each year, and medicated for the condition, 2.7 million children in 2007 according to the CDC. But a recent study came out questioning the efficacy of the ADHD drugs, and showing that they don’t boost the kids’ grades, instead that the other effects of the medication may outweigh the short term benefits of being able to sit still in a classroom. Read more in the WSJ article. Family encouragement, along with other environmental factors, appear to be more significant in long-term effects paired with the medication. No surprise: drugs alone aren’t the answer. *Update* A girlfriend…

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Independence Day & A New Baby Boy in Our Family

Happy Fourth of July! Happy celebration of the independence of our country! Try explaining that to a three-year-old. — England used to be in charge, but America thought they were mean, so then America had a revolution and became independent. But why were they mean? They made America do things they didn’t want to do. So did America have time out? Time out for not listening? Um. No. Well. Kinda. Adults do weird things. — We’ll be spending the holiday with our dearest family friends, the mother of who was recently diagnosed with cancer. It’s treatable and she’s so upbeat, worried more about the rest of us than herself, of course. Please pray for her & everyone around her as she goes through treatment. We’ll…

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Interview with Everyday Miracles: A Childbirth Education Center for Woman In Need

If you’re wondering how low-income moms can have doulas, childbirth education, breastfeeding support, yoga, and acupuncture, look no further. Everyday Miracles provides this and more to their moms, truly facilitating miracles everyday. Breastfeeding rate of 97% for over 8.5 months? Babywearing and carrying? Empowered births? I was blown away by talking with Debby and Mary. Please share with others about their important work and contribute slings, strollers, pack & plays, cloth diapers, maternity clothing, baby clothing, and good old fashioned monetary donations to keep these moms supported and loved. Find them on the web and facebook. And come to their 10 year birthday party on July 11th! —- Tell me about how you, Debby, met you, Mary, and how Everyday Miracles began. We were working…

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My Best Friend & Sister’s Momma Moon Product Line Review from Brooklyn Herborium

My ah-mazing sister, best friend, and organic artisan runs Brooklyn Herborium with her partner, Emma. Their product lines include holistic skincare & home cleansing. We all use ’em everyday. Me. The kids. The man. My parents. My siblings. Anyone who washes their hands in our sink. Anyone who’s lucky enough to get a little gift slipped to them by Molly. She & Emma double-handedly run this company whilst juggling their own babes. And they are working on opening their space in Brooklyn so you can get treatments, products, and loveliness all in one spot. They hand-make it all, through traditional processes with all-organic and natural products. The effect? Something beautiful, safe, and soothing to any skin type. Brooklyn Herborium is a new blog sponsor—-> looking to…

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SuperBoy is Super Three Years Old Today

It is mindblowningering that three years ago today I met our son. My birth story is here, for all you birthy-world friends who love my blah blahing about unmediated labor. But the real story has been the last three years of raising him and watching him become him. That story is really the backbone of Whole Parenting Family, a project I began after culminating all this knowledge, and so, like any new mom who’s a writer, I started a blog. To share my new knowledge! To edumacate! To change the world! Really, it’s about my son, my daughter, my husband, our garden, our dinners, our cries, our laughs. And about yours too. I love hearing and sharing and connecting. Thank you for caring about my…

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Parenting When You’re a Lawyer

The downside for my kids of me being a lawyer: (Well, let’s make that plural. Downsides.) 1) I cross-examine thoroughly. Oh, really? You say you went potty? When did you go? Did you flush? Did you take off your undies? Was the light on in the bathroom? Did you turn it on? Did you turn it off? Yes. Yes to which part. All of it. Really? You just told me you didn’t go and you didn’t flush. . . . 2) My mind is finely tuned to root out discrepancies and inconsistencies. Go AWAY, MAMA!!! You just asked me to help you. No! NO! NO!! Come baaaaaaaack. Come baaaaaaack. You’re being inconsistent. I’m not being inconsient. You need to pick a side and stick with…

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